Posts Tagged ‘life’

ABC of Success

  • Aspire to win
  • Begin with an end in mind
  • Challenge yourself beyond your limits
  • Differentiate thyself from the crowd
  • Empower your peers by sharing your success. One way or another, they have a hand in yours too.
  • Foster winning relationships with people from all walks of life
  • Give more than you can take
  • Have a little faith
  • Identify your strengths and weaknesses
  • Just do it! Believe in yourself
  • Keep your dreams alive
  • Love yourself
  • Maximize your potential
  • Never give up
  • Orchestrate yourself towards your destiny
  • Prioritize and prepare for opportunities
  • Quit procrastinating
  • Respect yourself and others
  • Sow good seeds, reap better fruits
  • Transform yourself continuously
  • Utilize your talents
  • Visualize your big dreams
  • Work smart, play hard
  • Xplore, Xperiment, Xecute
  • Young at heart
  • Zealous with what you believe in

Posted by ieming.com on June 12th, 2008 2 Comments

Simple Life?

Are you convinced yet that “Life is simple”? If you don’t, don’t worry because you are not alone; in fact, many people are still oblivious about it.

The big fallacy behind the idea “life is not simple” is because we are still part of the system. As with all systems, there are always some guiding principles that determine what work and what don’t. If you sway from them, you will be “punished” or you have to ask for forgiveness to rejoin the system.

A great example of a system is our educational system. Every child born in the 21st century is now expected to go through nursery school, primary school, secondary school and college (hopefully an Ivy League). During childhood, the popular belief is that you need to excel academically to be successful in life; society judges how far in life you can advance by what schools you attended or how well you performed in your examinations. Every child is implicitly measured either by a grade or what school brand he or she belongs to.

Yes, there is a positive correlation between academic performance and success. On one hand, you notice numerous well-educated people spearheading many of the Fortune 500 or Forbes Global 2000 companies. On the other hand, you can also witness many high school dropouts or so-called failures in that list too. So how are they able to make it into the list? Sheer luck? Or maybe the more appropriate question to ask is whether our current educational system that is designed during the industrial revolution is pervasive enough to be used as a metric? Fortunately, I would argue it is not.

Upon graduation of the educational system, you are now expected to work in corporations and climb up the corporate ladder. As time progresses, hopefully you can climb up the ladder and become the top chief of the company. Or at least, you can make enough good money to join the millionaire or even billionaire club. Society, as it being fickle-minded, shifts its definition of success from academic excellence to how much you make and what is your job title in the company. As long as you are not within the reach of the status quo of a management role in the corporate world, you feel that you have to “live to work” instead of “working to live”. This is where I believe our simple life definition gets muddled.

With more than 6 billion people on earth, no system exists today that can compute the different variations of human capacity to determine a person’s future. Human beings by nature of their creativity and multitude of talents, the first step to succeed is to discover thyself. From that initial step, you would gain self-confidence to use your innate talents to fight for what you are destined for.

To wrap it up, I think we should all take heed the advice from one of the greatest leaders of the 21st century, Steve Jobs of Apple Inc. “Your time is limited, so don’t waste it living someone else’s life. Don’t be trapped by dogma — which is living with the results of other people’s thinking. Don’t let the noise of others’ opinions drown out your own inner voice. And most important, have the courage to follow your heart and intuition. They somehow already know what you truly want to become. Everything else is secondary.”

Posted by ieming.com on June 10th, 2008 1 Comment

Love vs. Life

Life is so simple, yet things in life can get so complicated. What an irony, right? Personally, I think because the purpose of life is so simple that either you get it or you don’t. If you don’t get it, the complexities of your daily life are shielding that understanding from you. To experience it, you need to take a pause in life and take all the demands, noise and systems away from you. Let yourself fly 10 trillion miles away from where you are now and try to view the world and your life from that perspective.

Imagine how differently you see your surrounding now? Visualize whether the obstacles and challenges you encounter are just hiccups? Question yourself whether you are walking towards or running away from the destiny of your existence? Envision how things would be different if you have discovered your understanding ten, five or even one year ago?

I bet ya’, life would not have taken the same course. That moment struck me too when I least expected it. Many books I have read illustrate the simple nature of life, but not until I read books like “The Alchemist” by Paulo Coelho and “Tuesdays with Morrie” by Mitch Albom that finally connected the dots.

Here’s a summary what I finally came to realize. “Life is Love” and “Love is Life”. Without either, there is no existence of human being or the human race per se. And the ultimate source of love is from the creator of life and the universe. Without the love of the creator, there is no life in this universe. Without this universe, there is no medium to show outpouring of love. All in all, life and love have to coexist. To fully understand life, you need to learn to love and want to be loved.

Since this is just an introduction, let me expand further on my next post. I hope you enjoy it!

Posted by ieming.com on May 31st, 2008 1 Comment